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  THE MATHEMATICS OF MARRIAGE 1. One. Remember you two are one, do things together and make decisions together 2. Two. Your marriage is between two, husband and wife, do not allow third parties in; whether family, friends, a nosy pastor or social media 3. Three. Always rely on God. Let it be you, your spouse and God. A cord of three cannot be broken 4. Four. Remember it is always about the four letter word: Love. If anything you do is not motivated or centered on love, don't do it. Say "I love you" to each other often 5. Five. Use your five senses to love. See your spouse's wonder, taste your spouse's sweetness, touch your spouse with affection, smell your spouse's scent, listen to your spouse 6. Six. Wake up early in the morning before 6am to pray together as a couple. Start the day right 7. Seven. Be good to each other seven days a week. Not just when sex is involved or when it's time to go to Church 8. Eight. Drink eight glasses of water every day. That...

  18 TIPS A WIFE CAN USE TO CHARM THE HUSBAND  1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arg...

  *Knowing The Counterfeit From The Genuine* Paul reveals four ways in which Satan works like a master counterfeiter.  *First, he supplies a counterfeit saviour*:  _For even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light._ So though there are cults that preach Jesus, they do not preach the Christ of Christianity. *Second, Satan presents counterfeit servants*:  _For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ…So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness._ Their end will correspond to their deeds. *Third, Satan brings counterfeit saints*:  _Paul identifies these false brethren as those who seem like your brother or sister on the outside but are secretly your enemy on the inside_(Gal 2:4).  *Fourth, Satan offers us a counterfeit salvation*:  _But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach to you a gospel contrary to the one we preached to you, let him be ac...

  *Setting Goals in the Family for Optimal Enjoyment* The family: is a divine design, a fortress of fellowship, and a cradle of character. From the first whispers of creation, God ordained families as centres of life and learning. Yet, the question rings like a resonant bell: how do families forge goals that gleam with greatness and glisten with grace? The answer lies in harmonizing spiritual and secular aspirations, weaving a narrative of purpose, passion, and peace. Spiritual Goals: Anchoring in the Eternal *Cultivation of Christ-Centeredness* A family that anchors itself in Christ enjoys an unshakable foundation. "Unless the Lord builds the house, the builder's labour in vain" (Psalm 127:1). Establishing goals for regular prayer, Bible study, and worship ensures a spiritual synergy that strengthens every member. Picture the morning sun smiling through open windows as voices rise in prayer, weaving a melody of unity and hope. *Prioritization of Purposeful Parenting* Chi...

  UNDERSTAND WHAT IS COURTSHIP  For all the single men and ladies: Having encountered and interacted with many singles, I observed with some level of sadness their gross ignorance about COURTSHIP. Therefore, today I write to explain and clarify singles on the subject matter.  WHAT IS COURTSHIP? Simply put, courtship is a period of time where two lovers having decided to marry, are working towards marriage. At this level, a proposal would have been made signalling engagement or commitment by both lovers. Of course, at this level, both families would have been informed too. HOW LONG SHOULD A COURTSHIP LAST? There is actually no time frame with regards to the length of a courtship. However, a good courtship shouldn't be too short or too long. Relationship and marriage counselors, coaches and experts advocate a minimum of 6 months and a maximum of 2 years.  However, not every courtship has really adhered to this recommendation because of the unreadiness of one party to t...

  📌 SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 7 THINGS. (The Secret Formula)   1. Hard Work  Don't believe in luck, believe in hard work.  Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut.  There is none. 2. Patience  If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle.  First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once.  Most people give up at stage one.  3. Sacrifice If you don't sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice. Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire? 4. Consistency  Consistency is what transforms average into excellence.  Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success. 5. Discipline  Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing.  There will be days when you don't “feel” like doing it.  You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.   6. Self Confide...

  41 THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS AS THEY GROW...✍🏾 1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more. 2: Tell her to step into the FIELD not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD. 3: Let your daughter know that she need to trade her brain not her privates to make money. 4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become rich girl. 5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President. 6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt. 7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men. 8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God with a relationship with any Man. 9: Train your daughter that internet never forget or forgive, let her kn...

  KILLERS OF MARRIAGE 1. Laziness kills marriage. 2. Suspicion kills marriage. 3. Lack of Trust kills marriage. 4. Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage. 5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage. 6. Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage. 7. Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage. 8. Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage. 9. Poor Communication kills marriage. 10. Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect. 11. Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage. 12. Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage. 13. Nagging kills marriage. 14. Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage. 15. Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage. 16. Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage. 17. Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage. 18. Exposing Your Spouse's Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage. 19. N...