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  *_Stubborn Stains: How God Cleanses Our Sin_* Everyone who has ever done laundry knows how stubborn some dirt can be. You treat it, soak it, scrub it, and rewash it, but nothing seems to take out the stain. Some dirt is just too ingrained, too deep to be removed by our efforts alone. But dirt comes in more forms than just the physical. We often talk about having "dirt in our past" and try to avoid "airing our dirty laundry." These phrases capture the reality that, like stained clothes, the dirt in our lives—our sins, regrets, and guilt—can be tough to remove. No matter how much we try to cleanse ourselves through our actions or good deeds, the stain remains. This is why God, in His infinite wisdom, gave Zechariah a vision of Jeshua, the high priest, standing in dirty clothes. This vivid image in Zechariah 3:2-4 is a powerful illustration of God’s mercy and forgiveness. In Zechariah’s vision, Satan stands ready to accuse Jeshua of his sins. *"And the Lord said...

  THE POWER OF A WOMAN'S TONGUE 1. A woman's greatest power is in her words, whereas men are physically strong, a woman can bring down a man just with her tongue  2. A woman's words can encourage a man and be his greatest inspiration, or discourage him and be his greatest nightmare. The more he loves her, the more power she has over him 3. A woman's tongue can destroy her own children's self-esteem with harsh and cold words. A woman's words can uplift her own children with words of hope, faith and love. How children remember their childhood is based on how their mother spoke to them  4. A woman's tongue can be very suggestive that implies to many men that she is interested in them. This type of woman comes off as flirtatious. If she is single, she misleads men; if she is married, she makes her husband insecure as he wonders why she speaks to other men with a sexual undertone 5. A woman's tongue can chase friends away with her mean tone, stinging jokes an...

  *BEWARE OF PRIDE* Prov. 16:18 18. "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." God resists the proud but gives grace unto the humble. Jam. 4:6. *Opposite of pride is humility*. *Friends, beware of pride, it destroys*. ▪️Pride can take you from the limelight to obscurity. Pride brought Lucifer from glory to shame. He was cast out of heaven. Isah. 14:12-15. ▪️Pride took Nebuchadnezzar from the palace into the bush for seven years. Dan. 4:28-33. ▪️Herod was eaten up by worms as a result of pride. He did not return all glory to God. Acts 12:21-23. ▪️When a man humbles himself, God will lift him up in due time. 1 Pet. 5:6. ▪️Jesus humble Himself. As a result, God gave Him a name that is above every other name.  When you humble yourself before God, at the right time, God will announce your name to the world. Phil. 2:8 & 9. Don't allow God to humble you.  You are the one who will humble yourself. Ask God for the grace. ▪️God can only commit serious ...

  *_Building on Christ: The Foundation of Godly Relationships_* The foundation of our relationship with others, especially in marriage, must be built upon Christ. As believers, we are called to align our lives with God's will, and that includes our relationships. *"For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ"* (1 Cor 3:11). Jesus is the cornerstone upon which our lives and relationships should be built. Without Him, our foundations are unstable and prone to crumble. God gives us a clear directive about whom we should be closely connected with, especially in marriage. *"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Cor 6:14). This command is not about spoiling our fun or limiting our choices but is about protecting us. When we choose to align ourselves with someone who does not share our faith, we invite conflic...

  WHAT KILLS LOVE? 🤔 1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies.  2. ENDLESS FIGHTS Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart. 3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade. 4. AFFAIRS Affairs distract, your love for each other withers 5. ADDICTIONS Addictions such as porn or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner. 6. THIRD PARTIES You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse. 7. LACK OF APPRECIATION The more appreciation lacks, the more loving sta...

  *_Confronting Our Powerlessness and Finding True Power_* Life is filled with pivotal moments that possess the potential to alter our destiny. These instances often reveal our lack of control over life's events. How we respond to these moments can shape our future, either leading to our destruction or propelling us towards a brighter path. The apostle Paul, previously known as Saul of Tarsus, experienced such a transformative moment. His life's direction took an unexpected turn after encountering a divine intervention. Saul had been fervently persecuting Christians, believing he was doing right. However, on his way to Damascus, a blinding light from heaven enveloped him. Falling to the ground, he heard a voice: *"Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? . . . I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting. It is hard for you to kick against the goads."* He was instructed to go into the city and await further guidance (Acts 9:3-6). This encounter shattered Saul's self-righte...

  *_Choosing Accountability and Growth for Healthy Relationships_* In our relationships, one prevalent mentality has proven to be a destructive force: _"That's just the way that I am. Take it or leave it."_ This approach, devoid of accountability, has left a trail of ruined connections and broken bonds in its wake. Avoiding responsibility for our actions and behaviors undermines the foundation of healthy relationships and hampers our growth. It's essential to recognize that our behavior and attitudes have a profound impact on our relationships. The Bible teaches us the significance of our actions and the responsibility we hold. Proverbs 20:11 reminds us, *"Even a child is known by his deeds, whether what he does is pure and right."* Our choices and conduct reveal the state of our heart and character. When we find ourselves entangled in dysfunctional patterns, it becomes our responsibility to take action. Bitterness, defensiveness, cruelty, and selfishness ar...

  *DON'T BE IGNORANT* What Does Bible Say About Ignorance ? Ignorance is the lack of knowledge or understanding. Ignorant people are either unaware or uninformed. Sometimes we are ignorant because we did not know there was a need to learn something. Other times, we are ignorant because we have chosen not to learn something we need to know. In Hos 4:6, the Lord says, “My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you.” Willfully rejecting knowledge that God wants us to have is sinful ignorance. While unintentional ignorance about earthly topics is understandable, intentional ignorance about spiritual matters can lead to eternal destruction (Rom 1:18–23). The Bible makes a distinction between ignorance and innocence. We don’t have to be ignorant of the fact of sin; in fact, we can be highly informed about sin yet remain innocent of it. But we should all be ignorant about the practice of evil. Eph 5:11–12 says, “Have nothing to do w...

  *_In Remembrance of Me : My Body, my Blood_* Jesus shed his blood to purify and qualify us as the Righteousness of God in Christ.  Our Lord Jesus pre-incarnate spoke to Moses as written in Leviticus 17:11, "For the life of the flesh is in the blood, and I have given it to you upon the altar to make atonement for your souls; for it is the blood that makes atonement for the soul."  Atonement is to be reconciled with Father. Our soul cleansed and purified. Our sins and transgressions in the flesh he will remember no more.  Why? Because God sent his son to be judged on the cross in our place. His body broken so that we can be made whole and his blood shed so that we can be purified and come to God, face to face and be embraced by the loving arms of our Heavenly Father.

  *_The Dangers of Pride: A Lesson in Humility_* Pride can be a dangerous blindfold, preventing us from seeing the truth about ourselves and our circumstances. It often makes us overconfident, leading to mistakes and mishaps. Consider someone who prides themselves on their exceptional driving skills. Confident in their ability, they might neglect caution or attention, believing they are too skilled to make a mistake. Then, suddenly, they have a parking accident and damage their car. What happened? Pride blinded them to their own vulnerability and led to a costly error. Perhaps God allows such mishaps as a gentle, yet firm reminder to not let pride take root in our hearts. Proverbs 16:18 warns us, *"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."* God knows that pride can lead us away from His wisdom and grace. It is often in these humbling moments that we are reminded of our need for His guidance and our dependence on Him. After all, pride was the very fir...

  Cheating is not only having sex with another person who is not your wife/husband, it also includes: 1. Receiving money from a man without the knowledge of your husband. 2. Giving money to a woman without the knowledge of your wife. 3. Sharing sex jokes with a person who is not your spouse. 4. Deleting messages which you don't want your spouse to read 5. Answering frequent calls at night from an opposite gender in the presence of your spouse. 6. Avoiding answering a call from someone when your spouse is around or stepping aside to answer that call. 7. Saving contacts of those other persons with different names so that your spouse fails to recognise. 8. Lying about your location to your spouse when you are with that other person or vice versa. 9. Having office husbands and wives. 10. Piling unresolved issues with your spouse is another highest type of cheating which will in turn ruin your body, soul and spirit.

  *_Finding Balance: Pleasure, Obedience, and God's Design_* There exists a misconception that God is against pleasure, when in truth, He created pleasure as a part of His design. The key distinction lies not in the presence of pleasure, but in whether we allow it to control our lives. Scripture reminds us that *"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights"* (James 1:17). God delights in blessing His children with joy, delight, and the enjoyment of His creation. Pleasure in itself is not the adversary; it is the prioritization of pleasure over God's will that can lead us astray. Oftentimes, the challenge emerges when our desires blur the lines between wants and needs. Philippians 4:19 assures us that *"my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus."* God is committed to meeting our genuine needs and desires that align with His purpose for us. However, we encounter trouble...

  *What Does The Bible Mean By “Dying To Self”?*  The concept of “dying to self” is found throughout the New Testament. It expresses the true essence of the Christian life, in which we take up our cross and follow Christ. Dying to self is part of being born again; the old self dies and the new self comes to life (John 3:3–7).  Not only are Christians born again when we come to salvation, but we also continue dying to self as part of the process of sanctification. As such, dying to self is both a one-time event and a lifelong process. Jesus spoke repeatedly to His disciples about taking up their cross (an instrument of death) and following Him.  He made it clear that if any would follow Him, they must deny themselves, which means giving up their lives—spiritually, symbolically, and even physically, if necessary.  This was a prerequisite for being a follower of Christ, who proclaimed that trying to save our earthly lives would result in our losing our lives in the...

  *_Open Our Eyes: Recognizing God's Glory in All Things_* God desires for us to know Him, and He has chosen to reveal Himself in many ways: through the Bible, through creation, through His intervention in history, and through His work in the lives of people. Psalm 19:1-2 declares, *"The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament shows His handiwork. Day unto day utters speech, and night unto night reveals knowledge."* Everything God does reveals His glory and majesty. From the vastness of the universe to the intimate details of our lives, God is always making Himself known to us. However, there are times when our spiritual eyes are dim, and we struggle to see God's hand at work. We may become so focused on our problems and challenges that we forget the wonders the Lord has performed in our lives and in the world around us. In those moments, we neglect to thank the Lord with all our hearts, forgetting that His deeds are always amazing and His righteousness ne...

  *_Keep the Flame Alive: The Power of Consistent Prayer_* In the Old Testament, the priests were tasked with nurturing the tender flame on the altar, which symbolized the prayers of the children of Israel. They burned special incense, ensuring that a continual sweet fragrance wafted before God. *"And the Lord said to Moses: 'Take sweet spices, stacte and onycha and galbanum, and pure frankincense with these sweet spices; there shall be equal amounts of each. You shall make of these an incense, a compound according to the art of the perfumer, salted, pure, and holy'"* (Exodus 30:34-35). This act was not just ritualistic; it was a sacred duty that reflected the importance of prayer and communion with God. Today, we no longer need to burn candles or incense to come into God's presence. Because of Christ's sacrifice, we have the incredible privilege to freely fellowship with Him anywhere and at any time. However, in our busy lives, we often place other things on ...

  *_Finding Strength in God's Timing_* Waiting can feel like torture when you're afraid. Fear often causes us to make hasty, unwise decisions, reacting out of panic rather than patience. Yet, when David was filled with fear, he chose to trust in God rather than act impulsively. In Psalm 27, David writes, *"Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!"* (Psalm 27:14). Despite his fear, David called upon the Lord, presenting his fears and waiting patiently for God’s deliverance.  David's example in the Psalms shows us different ways to handle fear through faith. In Psalm 25, David turns to God when he fears losing his honor, saying, *"Let me not be ashamed; let not my enemies triumph over me."* In Psalm 26, when concerned about his reputation, he invites God to test his heart: *"Examine me, O Lord, and prove me; try my mind and my heart."* And in Psalm 28, fearing for his life, David cries ou...

  *_Bitter or Better: How Faith Shapes Our Response to Suffering_* Suffering is an inevitable part of life, and it has the potential to either make us bitter or better. The difference in our response to suffering largely depends on the type of relationship we have with God. Our connection to Him shapes our perspective on the challenges we face and determines whether we grow through them or become hardened by them. When we have a strong and trusting relationship with God, suffering can become a tool for growth and refinement. James 1:2-4 encourages us, *"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing."* This passage reminds us that trials are not just obstacles to overcome but opportunities to develop patience, strength, and maturity in our faith. On the other hand, if our relationship with God is weak or dist...

  *_Choosing Health and Holiness: Breaking Free from Smoking_* As followers of Jesus, we are called to walk in the light of His truth and pursue lives that honor Him in every way. Therefore, we will address a topic that might touch a nerve but is essential for our growth as Christians. We are addressing those among us who identify as believers yet find themselves entangled in the web of smoking addiction. Let's be clear: *the issue isn't about condemnation but rather about aligning our lives with God's purpose and truth.* Many who smoke often find ways to justify their habit or offer excuses for it. But deep down, they know that it contradicts the principles of living a holy and healthy life. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 reminds us that *our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, and we are to honor God with our bodies.* Smoking is a health risk that can lead to various illnesses, including cancer, heart disease, and complications during pregnancy. Our bodies are a gift from God, ...

  *_From Nothing to Everything: The Power of Prayerful Surrender_* Prayer is not merely a routine or a ritual; it is the acknowledgment of our complete dependence on God. When we pray, we recognize that we are nothing without Him. We pray because we are aware of our own inadequacies, our emptiness, and our poverty, and we seek to draw upon the infinite wealth, strength, and holiness of God. As it is written in James 4:10, *"Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up."* In humility, we come before God in prayer, knowing that all we need must come from Him. Our weaknesses, sins, and failures remind us that we cannot rely on ourselves. We must continually return to the Great 'I AM'—the God who is self-sufficient and all-sufficient. We pray because we recognize that our strength is limited, but God’s strength is eternal. As Psalm 46:1 declares, *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."* In our weakest moments, wh...

  ARE YOU WAITING FOR THE LORD BY PREPARING FOR RAPTURE ⁉️   ```How Can I Be Ready To Be Caught Up In The Rapture?```  The rapture is coming, and we should all make sure we are ready for it. Being ready for the rapture is much simpler than you may think. In short, you must receive Jesus Christ as your Savior. The rapture is for believers. Here is a clear prophecy of the rapture of the church: “According to the Lord’s word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep.  For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first.  After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words” (1 The...

  *_Overcoming Anxiety in the Face of Others' Milestones_* Life is filled with various seasons, and each person's path unfolds differently. As time goes by, it's natural to witness others achieving milestones like engagements and marriages. However, it's important to address the emotions that can arise when comparing our lives to theirs and feeling a sense of insecurity or anxiety. In Philippians 4:6-7, *we are encouraged not to be anxious but to present our requests to God with thanksgiving.* Anxiety often stems from a fear of the unknown and a lack of trust in God's plan for our lives. It's essential to remember that God's timing is perfect, and what He has in store for us is unique to our journey. *Comparing ourselves to others can lead to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.* But God reminds us in Psalm 139:14 that *we are fearfully and wonderfully made.* Each of us has a purpose and a path crafted by God Himself. *Insecurity arises when we lose sight ...

  *_Finding Peace in Christ: Rejecting Worldly Ways to Handle Stress_* Life is not always smooth; in fact, it can be very hard. Stress is a reality that we all face at different points in our lives. However, as Christians, we are in a better position than the world because we have God with us. While the world struggles to find lasting solutions to stress, we have the assurance that God is our refuge and strength. Psalm 46:1 reminds us, *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."* This truth sets Christians apart from the world. We don't have to rely on temporary or harmful methods to cope with stress because God is with us, ready to help and sustain us. Unfortunately, some Christians turn to worldly means to cope with stress, such as alcohol, smoking, and vaping. These methods are not only harmful but also reveal a disconnect from God and a misunderstanding of who we are in Christ. When we resort to these methods, we are essentially saying that God ...

  WHAT MAKES MARRIAGE BORING...✍🏾 1. THE IDEA THAT MARRIAGE IS WORK  Don't look at marriage as if it's work or a struggle. That attitude will wear you down. Who wants to get out of job and come back home to work all their life? Look at marriage as a journey with your best friend. Approach marriage with the right attitude. 2. UNATTENDED ISSUES  Don't pile up issues, address them immediately. Pending issues threaten the joy in your marriage. 3. RIGIDITY IN SEX Try out new sex positions, let loose, flirt, be kinky, experiment as you remain faithful 4. LACK OF LAUGHTER  Stop being too serious, joke, laugh, tease each other, watch comedies, have fun. 5. DOMESTIC TALKS Don't reduce your conversations to be just about chores, bills, responsibilities and parenthood. Talk about life, feelings, romance each other, smooth talk each other, heighten intimacy 6. NO MORE DATING Just because you are married doesn't mean that you stop going out on dates. Dress up, go out, do dinner...

  *CHRIST, THE ANOINTED ONE*. 1 Jn. 2:27 "But the anointing which ye have received of Him abideth in you, and ye need not that any man teach you: but as the same anointing teacheth you of all things, and in truth, and is no lie, and even as it hath taught you, ye shall abide in Him" ✅When we walk closely with God in purity daily, we grow in the anointing. We are anointed when we read, study, meditate on the word of God, and live our lives based on the word of God daily. ✅We are anointed when we spend quality time in the place of prayer with God alone. ✅Anointing is the outward manifestation of our inward purity and close walk with God daily. *CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ANOINTED*. 1. You will have the Holy Spirit without measure. Jn.3:34. 2. You live a life of humility. Phil. 2:6-8 3. You will love righteousness and hate wickedness. Ps. 45:6-7. 4. You will not love the world or the things in it. 1 Jn. 2:15. 5. You will not live a life of gluttony. Phil. 3:19. 6. You will not follo...

  *_The Power of Humility: Letting Go of Pride_* One of the most challenging things for us to do as human beings is to admit when we are wrong. Pride and arrogance often stand in the way, convincing us that we are justified in our actions or that admitting fault would make us weak. Yet, the Bible teaches us that Godf only restores and helps those who humble themselves before Him. *"But He gives more grace. Therefore He says: 'God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble'"* (James 4:6). When we are proud, we create a barrier between ourselves and God. Pride blinds us to our need for His guidance, forgiveness, and strength. It keeps us in a place of spiritual stagnation, where we are unable to grow and experience the fullness of God's blessings. *"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"* (Proverbs 16:18). This verse reminds us that pride ultimately leads to our downfall, while humility paves the way for restoration and di...

  THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVER: Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling. Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse. Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character. Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh. In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution. Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usuall...

  HOW TO KEEP THE SWEETNESS IN YOUR MARRIAGE  1. Don't hold on to the myth that honeymoon ends a few months into marriage. You have to be deliberate about keeping it sweet  2. Be careful not to hang around friends who corrupt your mind and change your perception about your spouse 3. Please your spouse. Treat your spouse the way you want your spouse to treat you 4. Profess your love in words and show your love through actions  5. Do not wait for your spouse to do good to you for you to do good to your spouse. Let your love be genuine and coming from the heart  6. Stay humble and grateful. Ego will keep you from pleasing your spouse  7. As things get added into your marriage; children, money, promotions, stay focused on each other  8. Learn each other's love language. Love your spouse the way your spouse wants to be loved  9. Both of you should seek individual growth, this will keep you both mysterious with something to keep learning about each othe...

  *_A New Mind, A New Path: How God Transforms Your Life_* True transformation begins with a change of mind. When the mind changes, the will follows, which then alters our emotions and ultimately leads to a change in direction. This process of transformation is central to the Christian life, as it reflects the renewing work that God desires to do in each of us. Romans 12:2 emphasizes the importance of renewing our minds: *"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."* The mind is the starting point for transformation. When we allow God to renew our minds, it shifts our will towards His purposes, aligns our emotions with His truth, and redirects our lives according to His will. A change of mind leads to a change of will. In Philippians 2:13, we are reminded, *"for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure."* As God wor...

  PASS IT ON Every godly parent is expected to pass on good legacy to his children. Passing on good legacy starts with the parent himself living out the virtues and values, being a worthy example to those children just as Jesus did to us as recorded in Acts  1:2 “everything that Jesus began to do and teach”. He walked the talk. Children learn better from example than what they say to them. Passing on good legacy is therefore made easier when children see those virtues in their parents.   In 2 Tim 1:5 there is an example of two great women – Louis and Eunice – Timothy’s grandmother and mother. Both women successfully passed on “unfeigned faith that they had in God from one generation to another. First from grandmother to mother and from mother to son. One is therefore not surprised that as a young man Timothy became a great instrument in the hand of God.   Abraham was another example. Even God bore witness of him in Gen 18:19 that “he will command his children and his...