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Wise Management

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  *_Wise Management: Our Money, Our Bodies, Our Faith_* As followers of Christ, we are called to be faithful stewards not only of our finances but also of our bodies, which are temples of the Holy Spirit. *“Do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?”* (1 Corinthians 6:19). Just as we manage our finances to glorify God, we are responsible for taking care of our health and treating our bodies with respect and care. Being wise with our money includes choosing purchases that support, rather than harm, our health. The world often markets products that can harm our bodies, such as junk foods, addictive substances, or items that encourage unhealthy lifestyles. As good stewards, we are called to discern between helpful and harmful choices. *“All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful”* (1 Corinthians 6:12). Our bodies are gifts from God, and we should not harm them through unhealthy or e...

Drink From Your Own Well

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  DRINK FROM YOUR OWN WELL.  When my wife and I first got married and I had not recovered from the initial "gragra" (that overwhelming excitement of marrying someone you love), It was as if there was no other woman in existence aside her. No matter how beautiful another woman is, I wouldn't even notice. I spent most of my time with her, and I spent the few hours I was away from her to talk about her to the people around me. The babalawo wey do that juju for my wife sabi work 😃🤣😄 I'm sure no woman would agree to associate with me as of that time because I talk about my wife for a living. Imagine having a conversation with a lady for the first time, and all I have to say to her is "My wife this, my wife that"😄😃🤣 The lady would definitely get irritated. Meanwhile, I wasn't intentionally doing that to provoke others, I was too excited about getting married to the love of my life, I couldn't help it but talk about her always.  About 2 years later, w...

Advice for Ministers

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  *_ADVICE FOR  MINISTERS._* _MISTAKES are inevitable in MINISTRIES_ From the inception of when God began to call men we've been seeing series of errors from those he called. Starting from Adam to Noah, Abraham etc we saw them taking action that they shouldn't have ventured into. Despite the anointing upon the life of Moses and his educational background,he still make mistakes. He strikes the rock twice and he also wrote something God didn't asked him to because of the people Jesus made us to know that. Elijah asked God to end his life when it was actually about to start. Jesus Christ said something when he was referred as good master,he replied no one is good. MISTAKES comes in different ways, It could be sin, it could be in relationships, it could be in breaking of natural or divine principles,  It could be in finances or teachings of God's word etc It could be in disobedience to the instructions of the Holy Spirit. It could be in sexual or heretical teaching. What yo...

The Rules of Wealth

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  The Rules of Wealth 👇👇 1. Wealth is a Mindset: Building wealth begins with the right mindset. You are encourage to adopt a positive and proactive attitude towards money, recognizing that wealth is not just about having money, but also about how one thinks about and interacts with it. 2. Live Below Your Means: One of the fundamental rules is to live below your means. Advisably, individuals are expected to spend less than they earn, which creates a buffer for savings and investment. This principle helps in building a solid financial foundation. 3. Save and Invest Wisely: You are advised to adopt the habit of saving a portion of your income consistently and investing it wisely. You have to understand different investment options and make informed decisions that align with your personal financial goals. 4. Understand the Power of Compound Interest: The importance of compound interest in wealth accumulation can never be overemphasized. By starting to save and invest early, individua...

Leadership Lessons

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  LEADERSHIP LESSONS  1. Leadership is the capacity to influence others through inspiration. 2. Everyone is a leader in some way. 3. Leadership is not about position or power, but about character. 4. The most important thing in leadership is to develop your own potential. 5. You must have a clear vision and purpose for your life in order to lead others. 6. Leaders must be willing to serve others. 7. Leaders must be humble. 8. Leaders must be honest and trustworthy. 9. Leaders must be courageous. 10. Leaders must be decisive. 11. Leaders must be persistent. 12. Leaders must be able to motivate and inspire others. 13. Leaders must be able to develop and empower others. 14. Leaders must be able to build and maintain relationships. 15. Leaders must be able to create and manage change. Additional Lessons on Leadership  • The importance of having a kingdom perspective. • The importance of understanding your identity and purpose. • The importance of developing your character. • ...

MADE FOR MISSION

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  MADE FOR MISSION   Introduction : Every life exists for a purpose and so every group or organization – the Church inclusive. If there is no purpose or mission for existence, it means life is futile. The church exists for two major reasons. One is to bring souls to the Lord Jesus and two, to establish the souls through teaching. God has made believers to be instruments iN His hands to fulfill this purpose. He has therefore commissioned us to go, preach, teach all nations – in other words, wherever man is, we are to go!   What Is Mission(s)? This is the assignment God has given to us, to harvest the souls of man into His kingdom. Missions can be defined as taking the message of salvation through Christ to people who have not heard about Him or yet to know Him as Lord and Saviour. Missions encompasses many things in order to bring the gospel to the people we are reaching. These may involve raising evangelists, missionaries, building schools for children and youths, provisi...

My Advice To Youths

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  MY ADVICE TO YOUTHS  1. Your control of your sexual urges will be the reason you are either successful or a failure. 2. Porn and masturbation is the greatest killer of success. It stunt and destroy your brain. 3. Avoid drinking alcohol like a camel drinking water. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool. 4. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available. 5. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. 6. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% is your responsibility. 7. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life. 8. Find new ways to make money. Make money and ignore the jokers who mocks and make fun of you.  9. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline. Be disciplined!  10. Avoid drugs. Avoid weed.  11. Learn skills on YouTube not wasting your time consuming shitty content on Netflix.  12. No on...

Trusting God Through Life's Messiness

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  *_Trusting God Through Life's Messiness_* Life often presents us with challenges and uncertainties, leaving us wondering why it can be so messy and why we have to endure pain. We experience moments when nothing seems to go right, and the hurt becomes overwhelming. But in the midst of it all, we can find solace in the unwavering presence of God. We can trust in God's faithfulness and love, even when circumstances are difficult. He is the steady foundation that holds us up when everything else seems to fall apart. His Word assures us that He is with us, providing healing and comfort in our brokenness. Isaiah 41:10 reminds us, *"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."* These words offer us reassurance that God walks alongside us, offering His strength and support when we feel weak. Psalm 34:18 echoes this truth, saying, *"The Lord is near to those...

Forgiveness: The Key To Effective Prayer

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  *_Forgiveness: The Key to Effective Prayer_* God’s Word reveals the vital elements necessary for effective prayer, and one of the most important keys is forgiveness. In Mark 11:24-25, Jesus emphasizes the significance of forgiving others when we come before God in prayer: *"Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them. And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses."* Forgiveness is not just an optional part of our spiritual walk; it is essential. It goes against the world’s natural inclination to hold onto grudges and resentment, but it is at the very heart of the life Jesus calls us to live. When we hold on to unforgiveness, we create a barrier between ourselves and God. Jesus clearly explained that refusing to forgive others hinders our prayers and causes God to withhold His forgiveness from us. *"...

To All Virtuous Women

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  TO ALL VIRTUOUS WOMEN. -Avoid any clothe that reveals your shape. -Avoid Any skirt that reveals your shape. -Avoid Any top that reveals the shape of your chest and belly. - Put on tops that cover totally your chest and your back. -Your bra must not be seen or revealed at all. -Cover your arms. -Your armpit must be well covered. We recommend long sleeves under the elbow not above the elbow. Avoid them for you and your daughters. The spirit revealing the Shape of a woman is not of GOD but from the pit of Hell. It is called Sexual sin. Long skirt is holy, short skirts are sexual. -Wear skirts that are longer than your knees not above your knees. -Avoid tight Skirts ,tight Dresses. Both modern and Africans wears. -Don't join these women who shave their eyes. -Avoid Use of makes-ups. -Avoid fake hairs( hair attachment). -Avoid trousers & skinny jeans. -Avoid jewelries , Adornment Be neat and clean. Take care of your skin By using products that won't change your natural skin co...

Surrendering Your Burdens: Trusting God's Care and Guidance

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  *_Surrendering Your Burdens: Trusting God's Care and Guidance_* In the midst of Jacob's journey to Canaan, a destination that held both promise and uncertainty, he carried with him a burden of guilt and fear. He had wronged his brother Esau, taking his birthright and blessing. As Jacob sought solace in a solitary night, hoping for a moment of peace, he encountered a divine wrestling match—a powerful encounter with God Himself (Genesis 32:24-30). Perhaps you can relate to Jacob's experience. Life presents us with various challenges: conflicts at work, disagreements with loved ones, or internal struggles within ourselves. We seek refuge in moments of tranquility, only to find our burdens weighing heavily on our hearts. Rather than surrendering our worries to the One who can provide true relief, we often allow them to consume us, exacerbating the situation. But there comes a time when we must set everything else aside and reach out to God with unwavering faith. The burden of...

15 Foolish Habits Of A Baby Wife

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  *15 FOOLISH HABITS OF A BABY WIFE*.🤔✍️ 📌1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS' OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THEY HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING :  This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. It's being childish.  📌2. TELLING HER HUSBAND HE IS NOT MAN ENOUGH:  This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner's self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury.  📌3. "THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE":  This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution. 📌4. BEING QUICK TO GET ANGRY ABOUT EVERYTHING:  Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with mo...

Advice For The Singles

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  ADVICES FOR THE SINGLES  1. BE GOAL ORIENTED: Stop chasing women, and FOCUS ON CHASING YOUR GOALS. Improve your economy, your value as a man increases when you are able to sustain yourself, and it will continue to increase when you have the ability to provide for others. 2. STUDY REGULARLY: You can read the books you want, go to the conferences you want, but nothing happens if you don't have SELF-ESTEEM. When your self-esteem improves everything improves: your economy, your physique, your relationships, etc. If you don't have self-esteem, you're already at a disadvantage. 3. SPEND AND SAVE WISELY:  If you have no inheritance, if you have no financial support, if you don't have contacts, if you have great studies, or skills, do what a real man does: work, save, make capital. Don't borrow to buy luxuries, nor to play entrepreneurship. It's true that everything in life is risk, but it's not about taking risks for taking them. Simply if you are starting out DO...

The Fear of the Lord: A Path to Wisdom and Blessing

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*_The Fear of the Lord: A Path to Wisdom and Blessing_* From the book of Proverbs, we encounter a recurring theme emphasizing the fear of the Lord. This fear is not a paralyzing terror, but rather a posture of continual submission to God, marked by humility, faith, and reverence. It is a deep sense of awe that acknowledges God's sovereignty and seeks to align our lives with His wisdom and truth. The fear of the Lord involves more than just acknowledging His existence; it encompasses a genuine hatred for evil and a sincere desire to turn away from it. Proverbs 8:13 reminds us that *"The fear of the Lord is to hate evil,"* and Proverbs 16:6 assures us that *"By the fear of the Lord one departs from evil."* This fear of the Lord is immeasurably valuable, surpassing all earthly treasures. Proverbs 15:16 declares, *"Better is a little with the fear of the Lord, than great treasure with trouble."* When we prioritize the fear of the Lord above worldly possess...

Committing Your Future To God: Finding Security In Uncertain Times

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  *_Committing Your Future to God: Finding Security in Uncertain Times_* ♡Proverbs 16♡ Many individuals experience doubts and fear when it comes to the prospect of marriage. The idea of committing to someone for the rest of their lives can be overwhelming, especially considering the uncertainty of the future and the prevalence of failed marriages. It's understandable that brides and grooms may question whether their own marriage will endure. However, attempting to predict the future is impossible. Instead, we should turn to the wisdom found in Proverbs 16, which offers guidance on how to approach our future by committing our ways to the Lord. Reading from Proverbs 16, we discover valuable insights on making plans, addressing pride, conducting fair business practices, using uplifting words, and strengthening friendships. Proverbs 16:3 advises us, *"Commit your works to the Lord, and your thoughts will be established."* But what does it mean to commit our actions to the Lor...

Be Careful Who You Listen To

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  *BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LISTEN TO*  In *2 Samuel 15,* David was running from his own son, Absalom. He was retreating from his city where he was king into the wilderness. Someone informed him that one of his trusted counselors, Ahithophel, had defected to Absalom. David uttered a simple request to the Lord: *_"O Lord, I pray, make the counsel of Ahithophel foolishness"_ (verse 31).* God answered that prayer. When Absalom comes into the city, here is what his counselor said: ```20 "Then Absalom said to Ahithophel, “Give your advice. What shall we do?” 21 Ahithophel said to Absalom, “Go in to your father’s concubines, whom he has left to keep the house; then all Israel will hear that you have made yourself odious to your father. The hands of all who are with you will also be strengthened.” 22 So they pitched a tent for Absalom on the roof, and Absalom went in to his father’s concubines in the sight of all Israel."``` This is typical, godless, immature counsel. _"Let...

There Things That Destroy A Marriage And How To Safeguard Against Them

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  THREE THINGS THAT D.E S.T.R.O.Y MARRIAGE Have you ever seen a crawling baby scattering a well arranged house? Their grip is usually very strong and they can scatter what will take a whole day to put in order in just a few minutes.  Same way, there are some aspects of marriage that are quick in s.c.a.t.t.e r.i.n.g the union if not properly handled. Here are the top three among many others:  1. SEX Once a husband and his wife are unable to deeply understand each other sexually, every other aspect of their union  s.u.f f.e.r.s, even their prayer life! That is why it is wise for newlyweds to give ample time (say a few months) to explore and understand each other sexually.  Unfortunately in Nigeria, most husbands impregnate their wives on the night after wedding, even when they probably do not know that pregnancy is capable of changing how a woman behaves; specifically in the aspect of sex and generally.  Men that are sexually satisfied in marriage will most l...

Embracing Spiritual Maturity: Living With Eternity In Mind

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*_Embracing Spiritual Maturity: Living with Eternity in Mind_* It is easy to get caught up in the distractions and cares of this world, often neglecting the importance of our relationship with God. The apostle Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 13:11, *"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things."* It is time for us to embrace spiritual maturity and take seriously our walk with God, for He is all that truly matters in the end. As we navigate through different stages of life, we often experience changes in our surroundings. Our friends may come and go, our spouse may change, and our circumstances may shift, but amidst it all, one thing remains constant—God. Hebrews 13:8 assures us, *"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever."* In a world of uncertainty, His faithfulness endures, and His love never fails. Living with eternity in mind means recognizing the tempor...

Let Not Your Heart Be Troubled

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  *LET NOT YOUR HEART BE TROUBLED*   *1] "Let not your hearts be troubled; believe in God, believe also in me. [2] In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? [3] And when I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.*  In John 14:1, Jesus tells His disciples, “Let not your hearts be troubled” (ESV). As always, the meaning of any particular passage of Scripture can only be ascertained by understanding the context. So we will back up and take a look at what leads up to Jesus’ command to “let not your heart be troubled.” In John 12, Jesus tells the crowds (including the disciples) that He would be crucified. In John 13, in the intimate setting of a Passover meal, the meal that later became known as “the Last Supper,” Jesus tells His disciples that one of them would betray Him. He then goes on to tell Peter that ...

God's Rufning Fire: Becoming Stronger In Hard Times

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  *_God’s Refining Fire: Becoming Stronger in Hard Times_* When troubles come your way, it’s natural to want to avoid or escape them. But what if we saw our trials as teachers—however unpleasant they may be? God allows difficult circumstances not to break us, but to refine us and draw us closer to Him. *"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience"* (James 1:2-3). Hardships are opportunities for us to depend on God more deeply. When we face bad circumstances, we often find our strength runs out, but it’s in those moments that God’s strength steps in. *"And He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.’"* (2 Corinthians 12:9). Through our dependence on Him, we discover His faithfulness in ways we may not have experienced otherwise. Not only does God sustain us through trials, but He uses them to shape our character. He makes us better people th...

Preparing Extraordinary For The Coming Of Jesus Christ

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  *PREPARING EXTRAORDINARILY FOR THE COMING OF JESUS CHRIST*  Jesus has shown us how to prepare for his coming  Jesus loves you. And he wants you to triumph; he won’t let you fail. He gives you all the tools you need to be with him for eternity in paradise, which is in his word(BIBLE) We are called every moment of our lives to persevere and overcome tests and struggles; we are called to triumph and make ourselves ready for him. Advent is ever-present and always, in the sense that it points to Christ’s second coming. We are called to prepare … always. We are called to repent … always. We are called to proclaim … always. We are called to triumph. This is alluded to in Hebrews 12:26-27: Christ “has promised, ‘I will once more shake not only earth but heaven.’ That phrase ‘once more,’ points to the removal of shaken, created things, so that what is unshaken may remain.” This testing and these struggles, which we endure every day, attack us and test us because there are the pa...

God's Way Over Your Life: A Life of True Fulfillment

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  *_God's Way Over Your Way: A Life of True Fulfillment_* In the excitement of youth, it’s easy to get caught up in the moment—following trends, pursuing your own desires, and enjoying life without thinking too much about the consequences. But don’t let the thrill of being young cause you to forget about your Creator. God has given each of us a purpose, and He desires to be at the center of our lives, no matter our age. *"Remember now your Creator in the days of your youth, before the difficult days come"* (Ecclesiastes 12:1).  Some people, especially in their younger years, think they can substitute their own rules for the ones God has given. They assume that living by their own standards will be easier or that God won’t notice their choices. But living apart from God's way always leads to frustration, emptiness, and regret. *"There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death"* (Proverbs 14:12).  The truth is, God’s commands are not ...