Christian Searchlight

  Parents, Children, and Memories: Crafting and drafting a Positive Legacy The relationship between parents and children forms the foundation and bedrock of a child's future. From the earliest moments of life, the interactions between parent and child lay the groundwork for the child's emotional, social, and cognitive development. The influence parents wield is immense, shaping not only the immediate environment but also crafting the memories that will carry their children through life. Positive influences result in cherished memories and a solid foundation, while negative influences can lead to long-lasting scars and challenges. THE POWER POSITIVE INFLUENCE  A child who grows up in a nurturing environment where they feel loved and valued develops a strong sense of self-worth, the love feeling include discipline when necessary. This emotional support is crucial and critical for building resilience, self-efficacy and, confidence. When parents consistently show unconditional lov...

  TYPES OF WIVES 1. BOXING WIVES :  These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene. 2. HEADMASTER WIVES :  These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands. 3. POLICE WIFE : This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages. If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities. 4. DICTIONARY WIFE :  These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to l...

  *The Power Of Prayer: What Is It And Why It Works*      In Mark 11:2, Jesus tells His followers: “So I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” There’s immense power in the prayer of a righteous Christian. The knowledge that there is power in prayer is not new. Many of the greatest stalwarts in the Bible turned to prayer constantly because they understood what it could do for them. Today, thousands of people see miracles in their lives by tapping into this very same power in prayer. And this power of God is available to you.  Let’s look at what this power is, why it works, and how to tap into it.  *What is the power of prayer?*  There are many times we feel powerless in our lives, especially in the face of difficult circumstances. By ourselves, we can do nothing.  The scriptures confirm this. In John 15:5, Jesus says, “Apart from me you can do nothing.” We recognize the need fo...

  MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE 1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a wo...

  .The Early Church Growth The early church experienced exponential growth due to specific factors that contributed to its spiritual vitality and effectiveness in spreading the Gospel. Let us delve into these reasons and learn valuable lessons to apply in our lives and churches today. The early church: Suffered together ( 1 Cor. 12:26) Rejoiced together (Rom. 12:15) Bore each other’s burdens (Gal. 6:2) Prayed for each other (Rom. 15:30) Encouraged each other (Heb. 10:24) I. There Was Early Church Growth When the Seed Was Planted (Luke 8:4-15) In  the parable of the sower, Jesus taught that the growth of the church starts with the planting of the Gospel seed in receptive hearts. As the Word of God is sown, it finds fertile soil in hearts ready to receive and respond to God's truth. The early church flourished when the message of Christ's salvation was proclaimed with boldness, leading many to believe and follow Him wholeheartedly. II. There Was Early Church Growth When Discipli...

  Joshua 1:6-9 Be Strong and Courageous*  In this passage, God is speaking to  Joshua, who has just been appointed as the leader of the Israelites following the death of Moses. God is calling  Joshua to be strong and courageous as he leads the people into the Promised Land. In our journey of faith, we often encounter challenges and uncertainties that can leave us feeling weak and fearful. Yet, in the midst of life's trials, God calls us to be strong and courageous, trusting in His promise and provision.  We explore the powerful message of encouragement found in the  book of Joshua, as God commissions Joshua to lead the Israelites into the Promised Land. Let us draw inspiration from  Joshua's example and embrace God's promise to strengthen and uphold us in every circumstance.  1: God's Promise to Strengthen  Joshua ( Joshua 1:6) In Joshua 1:6, God promises to strengthen Joshua as he assumes leadership over the Israelites, following the death o...

  *REBUILDING THE BROKEN ALTAR* 1 Kgs. 18:30-38 At Mount Carmel, Elijah repaired the broken altar before calling on God to send fire to prove that He is God who answers by fire. He proved to the prophets of Baal that he served the living God who answered by fire.  ▪️ The altar is a place where you encounter God's presence.  ▪️Altar is a place of reconciliation, mediation, and meditation.  ▪️Your heart is where you encounter the presence of God.  Your heart is where the true reconciliation and mediation take place.  ▪️Your heart is the altar of God. ▪️ Is your heart circumcised by the fire of the Holy Spirit?  ▪️How pure is your heart? Jn. 4:22-24. ▪️ Every altar that will attract the presence of God must be raised to bring glory to Him.  ▪️ The altar is a place where the purifying fire of God licked every water that put out the thirst for more of God and burned every wood, stone, and dust that blurred our vision.  There is nothing that fire t...

  This is lecture note to be delivered at every home Father should call his children together and deliver this lecture Mother should call her female children and drive down the point. Pedophile is everywhere. Parents, long Holiday is around the corner, *wake up* *What is  Pedophilia?* Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction towards children/a child.  _*Who is a child?*_  A child is anyone below the age of 18. Also note that children are gifts from God and He expect us as earthly guardians to take proper Care of each and every one of them. One of our major duties is to keep them away from these patients called paedophiles. There are different ways children can be abused. Below are some: *CHILD MOLESTATION!* Child Molestation is also known as child sexual abuse. It is a secret crime involving a range of indecent sexual activities between an adult and a child. *TYPES OF MOLESTATION:*...

  *_Letting God Fight Your Battles_* Does the battle around you continue to rage no matter how hard you fight? Have your enemies gained the upper hand? Have you grown weary or lost sight of the prize? These questions resonate deeply with many of us as we navigate the various struggles and challenges of life. Yet, amidst these battles, we must remember that God did not call us to fight alone. When we seek God in prayer and acknowledge our weakness and weariness, He will fight the battle for us. In Exodus 14:14, we are reminded, *"The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace."* This verse speaks directly to the heart of our struggles, urging us to trust in God's power and not rely solely on our own strength. The story of King Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles 20 serves as a powerful example of seeking God in times of battle. When faced with a vast army, Jehoshaphat turned to God in prayer, acknowledging his own powerlessness. 2 Chronicles 20:12 records his prayer, *...

  TO MAKE  UR HUSBAND HAPPY  1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him in peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements 6. Clean the house 7. Wash his clothes 8. Always pray for him. So what's so hard about that? 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘: It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer/prayer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42....

  *_Extending Grace: Nurturing Spiritual Growth in New Believers_* We are entrusted with the beautiful responsibility of nurturing and supporting one another's growth in Christ. The journey of a new believer is a tender and transformative process that demands our patience, understanding, and above all, grace. When an individual turns from a life of darkness and is reborn in Christ, it is akin to a spiritual birth. Just as parents don't expect their newborns to immediately walk or speak fluently, we should not hastily expect new believers to attain spiritual maturity overnight. The process of sanctification is a gradual one, requiring time, guidance, and an abundance of grace. 1 Corinthians 3:2-3 acknowledges this process: *"I fed you with milk and not with solid food; for until now you were not able to receive it, and even now you are still not able; for you are still carnal."* Just as infants begin with milk before advancing to solid food, new believers start their j...

  *_God's Timing: Revealing His Promises in Dark Times_* The pages of Scripture are filled with stories of God's perfect timing, His unfailing promises, and His miraculous interventions in the darkest of times. In these accounts, we discover profound lessons about God's faithfulness and His ability to reveal His grand design when the circumstances seem most daunting. Consider Abraham, gazing at the night sky as God promised him descendants as numerous as the stars. Genesis 15:5 recounts, *"Then He brought him outside and said, 'Look now toward heaven, and count the stars if you are able to number them.' And He said to him, 'So shall your descendants be.'"* It was in the darkness of the night that God unveiled the magnitude of His promise. In our own dark times, God reveals the vastness of His promises, assuring us of His faithfulness. Moses stood before the Red Sea, witnessing God's power as it parted to provide a way of escape. Exodus 14:21 st...