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  SEVEN THINGS YOU SHOULD GIVE YOUR SPOUSE DAILY👌👌👌 When it comes to giving, many married people are generous to everybody except their spouses. There are seven things you should give your spouse daily – not weekly, monthly or annually. They are things you must give your spouse daily. Let’s see them: 1. Give Your Spouse A TOUCH One of the ways to bond with your spouse is to give him or her a touch. We have encouragement touch, affirmation touch, healing touch, apology touch, and we have sexual touch. Study your partner and know what touch to give at a particular time. If you want God to touch your marriage, touch your spouse. Don’t let today go without you touching your spouse! 2. Give Your Spouse SPACE As much as you need to bond with your spouse and be together for daily intimacy, communication, affection, planning, etc., you still need to give your spouse his or her space. There is time for couples’ prayers, time for couples’ bonding. Also there is time for personal prayer, p...

  DRINK FROM YOUR OWN WELL.  When my wife and I first got married and I had not recovered from the initial "gragra" (that overwhelming excitement of marrying someone you love), It was as if there was no other woman in existence aside her. No matter how beautiful another woman is, I wouldn't even notice. I spent most of my time with her, and I spent the few hours I was away from her to talk about her to the people around me. The babalawo wey do that juju for my wife sabi work 😃🤣😄 I'm sure no woman would agree to associate with me as of that time because I talk about my wife for a living. Imagine having a conversation with a lady for the first time, and all I have to say to her is "My wife this, my wife that"😄😃🤣 The lady would definitely get irritated. Meanwhile, I wasn't intentionally doing that to provoke others, I was too excited about getting married to the love of my life, I couldn't help it but talk about her always.  About 2 years later, w...

  HOW TO PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE! Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.  No one gets married and planshave affair to  but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert. 1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite sex. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy. 2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite sex friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people. 3. Don't contact any opposite sex you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and ...