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  WHY MARRIED COUPLES SHOULD GO OUT ON DATES 1. Dating doesn't stop once you get married 2. A date is a pre-planned time set aside just for you two; making you two feel special because you deliberately put time, effort and planning to it. You don't have to wait for a special day such as birthdays, anniversaries, mother's day or father's day  3. Dating helps you two see each other outside home clothes and the home atmosphere of chores 4. Dating gives the wife a chance to dress up. Some wives have dresses they long to put on for the husband 5. Dating keeps you two from becoming too familiar with each other by creating new memories 6. Dating can expose you two to new conversations, new interests, new places and even new investments 7. Dating breaks monotony in your marriage 8. Dating helps you two have undivided and uninterrupted time away from friends and children 9. If you can plan dates and events with your friends, whether to go watch football, play golf or go to a cha...

  UNDERSTANDING YOUR MAN No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult.  If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiance/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man. The right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven-on-earth marriage with him! 1. MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE they are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his waking hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off! 2. MEN HAVE EGO: he needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish betwee...

  *_Religious or Redeemed: The Difference is in the Heart_* As Christians, we may stumble and fall into sin, but it is impossible to continue living in sin without experiencing deep conviction and misery. The presence of Christ in our lives transforms us, making it intolerable to persist in a sinful lifestyle. *"We know that whoever is born of God does not sin; but he who has been born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one does not touch him"* (1 John 5:18). When Christ dwells within us, the Holy Spirit brings conviction when we stray. This conviction is not a mere feeling of guilt; it is the deep sense that something is fundamentally wrong, leading us to repentance and a desire to return to God. Jesus said in John 16:8, *"And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment."* This conviction is evidence that we are truly born of God. A true Christian cannot find peace in a life of unrepentant sin. The Holy Spirit within ...

  The Indwelling Spirit: No Room for Darkness The idea that the Holy Spirit can cohabit with demon spirits within a believer is a dangerous and misleading doctrine. It goes against the clear teaching of Scripture and the very nature of God. When the Holy Spirit takes residence in a believer, He brings with Him the light and life of Christ, driving out all darkness. *"And what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Cor 6:14). There is not a single example in the New Testament of a believer being delivered from demons. The Bible does not contain warnings for Christians to avoid possession, nor does it provide instructions for deliverance services aimed at believers. In fact, the very idea contradicts the nature of the new life we receive in Christ. *"Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed"* (John 8:36). When Christ sets us free, we are truly free—free from the bondage of sin and the power of the enemy. The absence of New Testament teaching on e...