Christian Searchlight

  THE MATHEMATICS OF MARRIAGE 1. One. Remember you two are one, do things together and make decisions together 2. Two. Your marriage is between two, husband and wife, do not allow third parties in; whether family, friends, a nosy pastor or social media 3. Three. Always rely on God. Let it be you, your spouse and God. A cord of three cannot be broken 4. Four. Remember it is always about the four letter word: Love. If anything you do is not motivated or centered on love, don't do it. Say "I love you" to each other often 5. Five. Use your five senses to love. See your spouse's wonder, taste your spouse's sweetness, touch your spouse with affection, smell your spouse's scent, listen to your spouse 6. Six. Wake up early in the morning before 6am to pray together as a couple. Start the day right 7. Seven. Be good to each other seven days a week. Not just when sex is involved or when it's time to go to Church 8. Eight. Drink eight glasses of water every day. That...

  18 TIPS A WIFE CAN USE TO CHARM THE HUSBAND  1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arg...

  *Knowing The Counterfeit From The Genuine* Paul reveals four ways in which Satan works like a master counterfeiter.  *First, he supplies a counterfeit saviour*:  _For even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light._ So though there are cults that preach Jesus, they do not preach the Christ of Christianity. *Second, Satan presents counterfeit servants*:  _For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ…So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness._ Their end will correspond to their deeds. *Third, Satan brings counterfeit saints*:  _Paul identifies these false brethren as those who seem like your brother or sister on the outside but are secretly your enemy on the inside_(Gal 2:4).  *Fourth, Satan offers us a counterfeit salvation*:  _But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach to you a gospel contrary to the one we preached to you, let him be ac...

  *Setting Goals in the Family for Optimal Enjoyment* The family: is a divine design, a fortress of fellowship, and a cradle of character. From the first whispers of creation, God ordained families as centres of life and learning. Yet, the question rings like a resonant bell: how do families forge goals that gleam with greatness and glisten with grace? The answer lies in harmonizing spiritual and secular aspirations, weaving a narrative of purpose, passion, and peace. Spiritual Goals: Anchoring in the Eternal *Cultivation of Christ-Centeredness* A family that anchors itself in Christ enjoys an unshakable foundation. "Unless the Lord builds the house, the builder's labour in vain" (Psalm 127:1). Establishing goals for regular prayer, Bible study, and worship ensures a spiritual synergy that strengthens every member. Picture the morning sun smiling through open windows as voices rise in prayer, weaving a melody of unity and hope. *Prioritization of Purposeful Parenting* Chi...