Type of Relationship to Avoid

 

𝐓𝐘𝐏𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐀𝐕𝐎𝐈𝐃

Avoid a relationship:

1. BASED ON PHYSICAL ATTRACTION ALONE

Aside the fact that both of you love each others looks, complexion, appearance, etc, there's nothing substantial about the relationship. You're always gushing about how beautiful or handsome your partner is, how long her hair is, and how hairy and broad-chested he is. You're in love with looks nothing more nothing less. Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain. 

2. BASED ON FINANCIAL GAINS ONLY

Whoever told you that a relationship is meant to be your poverty alleviation program lied to you. If you're in that relationship solely because of what you stand to gain financially, quit now before it's too late. 

3. BASED ON S3X ALONE

Believers should keep the marriage bed UNDEFILED, holy, and pure. Once sex is involved, quit!

4. THAT MAKES YOU BITTER INSTEAD OF MAKING YOU BETTER

Any relationship that keeps serving you limes instead of smiles is doomed. Run away from any relationship that makes you share tears of sorrow regularly. 

5. WHERE THE LOVE IS ONE-SIDED 

The love has to be mutual. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner. Loving someone is effortless and comes naturally. Don't beg anyone to marry you nor should you marry anyone out of pity. If you're not feeling the love now, chances are that you won't feel it in the marriage. 

6. WHERE THERE ARE OBVIOUS RED FLAGS

Red flags are like road bumps. So, the moment you start seeing different red flags in a relationship, match the break and do a U-Turn.  

7. THAT MESSES WITH YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

  Once your mental health is at stake, please take a walk!

8. WHERE DOMESTIC VIO.LEN.CE IS THE NORM

Quit with immediate effect once this is involved.

9. WHERE YOU'RE ONLY SEEN BUT NOT HEARD

Any relationship that silences you is not a healthy and Godly one. 

10. THAT SEVERES THE CONNECTION YOU HAVE WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY

Once you can't freely relate with friends