The 10 Needs of A Wife

THE 10 NEEDS OF A WIFE

1. THE NEED TO BE PURSUED

She needs her husband to desire her, to miss her, to look for her, to hunt for her, to make advances towards her. It makes her feel treasured

2. THE NEED FOR INFORMATION 

She would love for him to voluntarily give information, to be accountable to her. This gives her clarity and makes her feel involved 

3. THE NEED FOR SECURITY

Security is about being certain that he is committed to her, that he has a vision that involves her. The confidence that what they have is long term

4. THE NEED FOR COMPANIONSHIP

She doesn't just want the husband-wife title, she needs a companion, a best friend. Someone to talk to about anything. Someone emotionally present

5. THE SEXUAL NEED

Yes, women have sexual desires too. She doesn't want to be starved, to train her body to do without sex. She needs sweet love making that services her good

6. THE NEED FOR COMPLIMENTS

She needs her beauty and attractiveness noticed and crowned by her man. It celebrates her femininity 

7. THE NEED TO BE SUPPORTED

As she is his helper, she needs her dreams supported too. She needs his support in raising the children, handling challenges and finding solutions

8. THE NEED TO BE STUDIED

She loves it when he shows interest in her, when he asks loving questions to find her out. "How was your day?", "Are you OK Love?", "What happened to your arm, I notice you have a mark?", "I see these days you are learning a lot about economics, good stuff". It makes her feel important 

9. THE NEED TO BE TREATED SPECIAL 

She needs him to keep her as his priority. To be faithful. To call her by special names, to show honour to her, to take care of her in public and private 

10. THE NEED TO BE TREATED WITH GENTLENESS 

She needs him not to handle her as if she is a fellow man, but to speak to her with care