How To Make Your Spouse Enjoy Spending Time With You

 

*HOW TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH YOU*

*1. DO THINGS THAT YOUR SPOUSE ENJOYS*

Don’t just think about what you like when you are together, consider your spouse 

*2. AVOID ARGUMENTS*

Being argumentative makes your spouse not look forward to being near you. Not everything has to be a fight

*3. MAINTAIN GOOD HYGIENE*

Sometimes your spouse can keep off being near you because of sweat or foul smell

*4. TAKE CARE OF YOUR SPOUSE'S EMOTIONS* 

It will be difficult to be physically close if you two are not emotionally close. You become emotionally close by apologizing when you wrong, hearing your spouse and speaking with kindness and love

*5. BE HUMOROUS*

Being around you should often be fun. Be playful, cheeky, not taking everything personal

*6. RESPOND TO YOUR SPOUSE'S ADVANCES*

When your spouse flirts with you, flirt back. When your spouse hugs you, don't be rigid. Continue the dance your spouse starts

*7. GIVE ATTENTION*

If you will be with your spouse physically but appear distracted by your phone, the TV, work or other matters; your spouse will feel unwanted and not look forward to your company

*8. BE EQUALS*

Relate with your spouse not like a parent to a child, a mentor to a mentee, a boss to an employee, a pastor to a congregant; but as a friend, as a partner

*9. DON’T OVERREACT*

When you blow things out of proportion, when you seem easily triggered and you turn conversations to something difficult or blow up when you hear something unpleasant; your spouse will feel as if he/she is walking on egg shells. It will be a tense environment that no one likes