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  FAMILY, PLACE OF FORGIVENESS ... ©️ There is no perfect family. ©️ We do not have perfect parents, - you are not perfect yourself. We do not marry a perfect person or we do not have perfect children. ©️ We have complaints from each other. We can not live together without offending one another. ©️ We are constantly disappointed. Yes for so many reasons at different times we are disappointed by one another. ©️ There is no healthy marriage or healthy family without the exercise of forgiveness. Forgiveness is the medicine of family joy and happiness. ©️ Forgiveness is vital to our emotional health and spiritual survival. No matter the offence or who is the offender. Without forgiveness, the family becomes an arena of conflict and a fortress of evil. ©️ Without forgiveness, the family becomes sick and unhealthy. ©️ Forgiveness is the asepsis of the soul, the purification of the spirit and the liberation of the heart. No sin is too big to be forgiven. He who does not forgive do...

  *HOW TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH YOU* *1. DO THINGS THAT YOUR SPOUSE ENJOYS* Don’t just think about what you like when you are together, consider your spouse  *2. AVOID ARGUMENTS* Being argumentative makes your spouse not look forward to being near you. Not everything has to be a fight *3. MAINTAIN GOOD HYGIENE* Sometimes your spouse can keep off being near you because of sweat or foul smell *4. TAKE CARE OF YOUR SPOUSE'S EMOTIONS*  It will be difficult to be physically close if you two are not emotionally close. You become emotionally close by apologizing when you wrong, hearing your spouse and speaking with kindness and love *5. BE HUMOROUS* Being around you should often be fun. Be playful, cheeky, not taking everything personal *6. RESPOND TO YOUR SPOUSE'S ADVANCES* When your spouse flirts with you, flirt back. When your spouse hugs you, don't be rigid. Continue the dance your spouse starts *7. GIVE ATTENTION* If you will be with your spouse physical...

  MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE 1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a w...

  SIGNS THAT YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT GREAT   Sometimes, we do have a fake assessment of our marriage. Some think their marriages are doing very great, but the truth is their marriages are very poor and not progressive. Here let us examine some habits in your marriage that show it's not great.   1. YOU GO TO BED AT DIFFERENT TIMES One simple thing, but very important, is the couple lying down to sleep together. You may have different work schedules and studies, but it is worth struggling to maintain this habit. Sometimes the day is so tumultuous, that the only time the couple has to stay together, to know how each other’s day was, to hug and caress each other is bedtime. And it’s so good to sleep together with the loved one!   2. YOU LOVE YOUR JOBS MORE THAN YOUR SPOUSE This is a bad habit. Your job comes first in your heart and you don't care whatever happens to your spouse. You never remember that you will leave that office one day, no matter how good you are on the jo...